If it's your first time in a spiritualist church or a Zoom room where a spiritualist service is conducted, you may not know how to answer the medium if they come to you. 

 

Every medium works differently. However, the principles of answering are similar. Here is an example.

 

Medium, "May I come to you, please?" You, "Yes." Medium, "I have a man with me, and he tells me he is your Father. He is about five foot seven in height with darkish hair. Can you understand this man?" You, "Yes, I can." Next, the medium may say much more about him or others within the family. After that, the conversation may continue in the same way.

 

If you cannot accept what the medium is saying, please say no, or if you don't understand what is said, please tell the medium. The medium will not mind and would rather you be honest.

 

Some would rather not have a message on their first visit, and that's fine again; explain to the medium, and they will understand. You may need to research some information, but it will provide evidence.

 

If the medium's information becomes too personal, please ask them to stop, and they will. 

The above is only an example.